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Selecting Gifts To Grow On

by ROSEMARY PORTERA, M.S., CCC-SLP | Saturday, Nov 17, 2018

gifts to get someone with autismParents, families and friends want to get it right! You want to give a gift that is fun but also has some innate teaching qualities. Sometimes that can be a tall order, especially when buying for a child with special needs. So let’s break it down:

  • Consider developmental age.  Toys should be engaging but not frustrating.  Pick toys with levels, so the child can begin where they are but be motivated enough to challenge themselves to move to the next level.  Example: Legos.
  • Consider chronological age.  Toys that move and make sound aren’t all found on the baby aisle.  Look in the novelty section for more age appropriate options.
  • Build on the child’s interests.  Think about ways to “evolve” your child’s special interest.  Take a  Star Wars  obsession and kick up to the solar system. 
  • Think about skill development.  What communication, social, cognitive skill will the child be practicing when playing with the toy?
  • Safety should be primary concern.  Check online reviews for quality and be aware of small pieces that may be a choking hazard (including batteries).
  • How will it satisfy your child’s sensory needs?  Toys that require more movement will provide more deep sensory input (riding toys).  Other toys will support calming (vibrating or lavender scented stuffed animals).
  • Get recommendations.  You’re not in this alone!  Ask the professionals in your child’s life and other parents for ideas.
  • Lastly, fight the urge to purchase a toy that isolates the child.  Children with autism can often be seen nose to screen for hours.  Choose toys that require face to face interaction.  Board games are perfect for this.  They are very visual and rely on the unpredictability of other players.  Also consider any play sets that support imagination.  When playing with others these types of toys help the person with autism spectrum disorders consider another people’s perspective.  This neurologic function creates the biggest challenge socially for children with ASD.  Imaginary play supports the development of the flexible thinking we all need to get along with others, make and maintain friendships and have positive interactions.     

FAU CARD wishes your family a safe, fun and interactive holiday season!

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